The world is your mirror

Todays blog may be a recap of something i have said many times before but this is a really good basic to always follow when in any type of doubt... sometimes certain people in our life will connect or irritate each other, in both cases there is a connection, recognizing  mirror... this means that you recognise something within yourself through that other person... its  something that gets brought up for you to heal, let go of or work through. Sometimes it is also appropriate to say nothing to someone when confronted with a challenging situation  until you have uncovered what it means to you or why it is bringing up certain emotion.. A very good indication where you are at is to look at your cupboards or office or environment, an uncomfortable or messy environment usually signifies a scattered mind... in my life i like to always do some self internal work before i say or take something too personal... i see people always as teachers, and although we are sometimes a bit too reactive we always have choice to act differently the next time... i live by the rule that i can only look to my self for change, no one can do that for you... and if you want something diffferent change your reactions and your patterns... and you can always only start with yourself... stop blaming or pointing a finger and to take responisbility for your own life is probably the bigggest present you can give yourself... so see everyone as a giift bringing you feedback whether positive or negative... :-) something to look at.