In my show tomorrow Wednesday 14 March, i talk about how our subconscious/unconscious chooses a partner based on chemistry...the purpose of this is to heal a certain wound, or to fulfill a certain need from childhood... what this means is that we are faced with certain partners in our lives so we can fulfill and heal that which our parents and caretakers could not. With that said an exercise that is very beneficial is to write down all the positive and negative aspects of your father and your mother, and you will have a blue print of a type of imago or image of a partner you will attract to heal certain wounds. When we don't learn from a certain experience or we do not heal, we keep attracting similar characteristics... uncovering the past, and consciously taking note of all the similar negative and positive traits of all your partners will give you a hint of what you need to heal...until that wound is healed no forward movement can take place...
But we cant expect our partners to heal or fulfill everything... so while we are in an in the meantime process, getting to know yourself is key...below are some questions that you can complete, do this exercise as fast as possible, as you need your intuition to complete the sentence in order to hook into the real you, to find out about yourself...and possibly why you are where you are :-)
My goal in life is...
The thing that gives me most satisfaction is...
My childhood was...
I think sex is...
When i make love i prefer...
My deepest fear is...
My deepest need is...
My most frequent feeling is...
The thing i hate most is...
I worry most about...
My goals for my primary relationship are...
My reason for wanting a relationship is...
I think my relationships have been...
Three things about myself i want to change...
I Fantasize about...
I feel anger when....
I think i am...
My highest value is...
A nude body is...
I am happiest when...
To me work is...
When i go to a party, i...
The person i admire most is...
To me, death...
I have no use for people who...
I am afraid of...
When someone is rude to me, i ...
I cant understand people who believe...
In general i think my strengths are...
For more on this topic listen to OWT RADIO tomorrow from 10am... all info is on www.otherworldstomorrow.com
