Controlling Behaviour

How do you know when you are helping someone or trying to control their lives? every day i listen to people who interfere into other peoples lives, unknowingly obviously, because we are raised to always try and rescue people... this however is breeding a generation of victims, control freaks and too interfering individuals, not trusting other people or themselves enough to make decisions...my rule of thumb for this is: *only give advice when asked other wise just listen *let the other person come up with some solutions first before giving yours - this is very empowering! *do not live in the ego thinking you know best, sometimes we learn the most through mistakes, so let the people around you make them... *be aware of your own fears, as usually we project them on to others...we all have our own lives to live...concentrate on YOURS, and let others concentrate on THEIRS. :-)

Timing

Timing, its something we all either accept, fight against, get frustrated with, or just give up on... :-) the key to understanding timing is that usually things don't fall into place on OUR time, but on the universes time, when the time is right...but somehow we feel the need to push and pull, and do whatever we can to have things our way :-) usually when just accepting blockages as signs that the TIMING is not right yet, then we can see life, blockages, open and closed doors as positive things, to help guide us in the right direction...when the timing is right then everything falls right into place...if its meant to be it will be!